It's a social psych experiment. I always liked those. I'm pretty good at keeping my home decluttered but not so much my relationships, I tend to let everyone in or no one all and lately it's been no one at all. I decided I didn't want to be such a hermit but that I only want people in my life that I can be myself with, and that give back...no more soul-sucking, one-sided, unfulfilling relationships. Life is just too short to be that miserable if you don't have to.

It's been har

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I have gone through a tremendous amount of change in the past three years. I have been reflecting this morning on how that change has affected me. I have gone through the five phases of grief, brought up old wounds from years past that have not healed, and new wounds created by my exit from Mormonism. I have determined that Mormonism is a religion based on denial. As a Mormon I tried to deny I was human. I tried to be perfect, expected and expected those around me to be perfect. Mormonism preven… Continue

Here is the latest sad stats for Utah Women

http://uvu.edu/wep/

In a nutshell, the average Utah Women will work 30 years in her life but she will work in the lowest paying professions.

To quote my other favorite blog lookilulu written a former BYU Alum now feminist Attorney Jill Bowman http://blog.lookilulu.com/

"Young women in Utah still don’t seem to understand that

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Any exmo college grads in their 40s out there? Looking to connect!